The most important person in your life is you. And if you don’t love yourself,

you cannot expect other people to love you. When you love yourself you

see your inner beauty, which is incredible. You will become aware of what

an extraordinary person you are; because that is actually who you are. We

all have our limits and our flaws, but we need to know that we are

extraordinary. Repeat this to yourself every day and you will get better and

better. You life will become more pleasant.

We all make mistakes. That is how life is. Most people have been down

that road. They have made mistakes and failed too. The failures may be

financial, personal or love related. It makes no difference. But you are not

the only one. So forgive yourself. Nothing is so bad that it cannot be


It is important for you to be able to take care of yourself and to love yourself

completely and unconditionally. You are what you are today because of

your past. Accept that experience as a part of you.

Tell yourself to accept your past, because you are what you are today

because of your past. If your past had been different, you too would be a

different person today. Mistakes and failures of your past can become a

source of immense wealth and happiness for you.

It is important to remember that it is never too late to change and improve

yourself. Keep in mind that no matter how old you are, you are capable of

doing whatever you want. If you look at history you will see umpteen

examples that tell you everything is possible if you strive hard at it.

Ways to love yourself

 Compliment yourself. And mean it when you say it. It may take a

while but you are sure to come up with something good you can say

about yourself. Look in the mirror when you do this.

 Give yourself a hug. Close your eyes and feel the warmth of the hug

spreading through your body.

 Write a love letter to yourself on the mirror. You can use a lipstick to

pen your message of love. Read it every day as you go about your


 Take a note book and write down five things you love about yourself.

Do this every day and read back on what you have written regularly.

 Think about what a wonderful person you are and smile. Spread the

joy of being and of your very existence.

 Your body is a temple. Love it by looking after it. Practice yoga. Go

for long walks, eat healthy. You will soon feel good about yourself.

 The same goes for the mind. Read literature that is thought provoking

and good. Stimulate your mind with good thoughts. Avoid negativity

of all kinds.

With increasing individual love, global love is sure to increase making our

planet a better place to live in.