You are loosing control of your life because of this

If you do not take 100% responsibility of your life, you are losing 100% control over it! – Slavica Bogdanov

“Taking responsibility for being exactly where you are gives you the power to be exactly where you want to be” – Author unknown.

Do you know what being a responsible person means? Nowadays most people are unwilling to take responsibility. What should you do to be more responsible?

To be responsible you need to understand the meaning of “responsabilisation”. It is indeed a law of success, but also a law of attraction. You must feel 100% responsible for everything that happens in your life. At the beginning, it is not very easy. I have been involved in real car accidents and other accidents occurred in my life either wanted or not, conscious or unconscious. Usually, it is quite hard to accept that we are responsible for those accidents.

But, it is even harder to accept that we caused the accident. I had to stay in bed for two months without being able to move after the accident. The fact of knowing that I am responsible, that I have attracted the accident in my life, is sometimes difficult to handle, but I think it was an important stage of my life that has given me back my power.

When you start to realize that you are responsible for everything that happens in your life, you become aware that you can change everything in your life. You can control your fate fully. You are no longer a victim of circumstances, but the director of our own life.

These thoughts have changed my life tremendously. They were capital just like the pivot that I have suddenly clicked. I was no longer a poor victim of what was happening, being tossed to the right or to the left by life, but a decided being who wanted to take responsibility and gain control over my life.

So you should take over the wheel of your life. When you get behind the wheel of your life again, you take back your power and choose your direction. You are the one who chooses, because you are the director of your own life. You don’t have to depend on someone else’s opinion to succeed in life.

How to become responsible?

Think carefully and note down the events that you refuse to accept in your life. You should take full responsibility for them, because writing this phrase down will start making you conscious of all the elements in your life that you can adopt. It is essential for you to become aware of this fact, because it will give you back your power. It is a change that takes place inside of you, exactly in the spot where you will regain your self-confidence.

I would say it is an important key that represents the basis of success, of power, and of the law of attraction: responsabilization.

You are the one who attracts the best or the worst. You must do all you can to attract the best, because you have the power and the responsibility to do it. The better you get, the more this fact will influence your life, having a great effect on your future and on the experiences that you want to attract.

So you should take responsibility as it helps build your self-confidence. If you are a responsible person, you can control your life and build a bright future.

How to create good goals

“Set your goals high and don’t stop till you get there” – Bo Jackson.

Setting goals is very important to be successful in your life and to use the law of attraction properly. Decide what you want from your life. Your dreams may be small or big; setting goals helps you plan how to move through your life.

Many people are not aware of what they want to achieve in their life. They are hesitant and tell themselves: “Why should I create goals if I am going to change my mind in a gist?” It is advisable to create goals and to change your mind, rather than never envisage a plan out of the fear to change your opinion. It is better to make a plan and alter it on the way if it does not work. But what is important is to have a plan written down so that you won’t sail anywhere the wind takes you, without ever daring to speak up.

Think in terms of ‘’AND‘’, not ‘’EITHER/OR’’

Taking a decision is always the hardest thing. It is to put one foot down and say: “Look at what I want; I am sure of it, it is exactly this particular thing that I wish to have!” Many people often hesitate to take a decision. They are afraid of the choice because they think in terms of either/or.

The “either/or” mentality belongs to the people who are not successful. It’s a kind of mentality that can hold you back. “Either/or” sounds like that “either I want to make a lot of money, OR I want to have just a few hours worked”. Or “I want to have a lot of money OR have a family life in which I have plenty of time for hobbies.” Thus, “either/or” is a thinking pattern of the people who put themselves limits.

Rich and successful people who see themselves surrounded by endless possibilities always think in terms of “AND”. They tell themselves: “I want to have a lot of money and plenty of hobbies”; “I also want to have an extraordinary life, full of voyages, and to raise my children in a fantastic way. They never think in terms of “either/or” and don’t hesitate before taking a decision, but envisage choices inclusively: every wish can materialize at the same time, because everything is possible. So you can have it all at the same time. But you need to know how. It is truly possible.

Therefore, the AND is fundamental for the creation of goals which are not exclusive, but rather inclusive.

Adopting a thinking pattern based on AND, not EITHER/OR, will allow you to create goals that do not frighten you, because they do no longer hinder your path. You won’t have the feeling that your choice or your decision is blocking all the other options in life. So, it’s essential for you to understand the AND concept.

In conclusion, give up the “either/or” mentality. Think in terms of “and” to set your goal and to be successful in life. Nothing is impossible. If you have self-belief, you can achieve it.