“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent” – Eleanor Roosevelt.
It is really important to develop self-love and self-esteem. We are what we think ourselves to be. Our mind controls our body and our actions. If we convince ourselves that we can do something in most cases we get what we set out to obtain.
Many people that I meet during my coaching classes, my conferences or my travels often claim that: “I don’t have any issues. I am self-confident. I have no worries. I love myself, I love myself, and I love myself”.
When I look at their results, I usually find that they do not necessarily love themselves. For instance, they are overweight; they have communication issues or a problem with the way they think. Even in their mind, they do not seem to have a sense of self-esteem.
If someone offers you a present and if someone directs his generosity towards you, refusing it does not only mean offending the universe which offered you its generosity and abundance, but also denying the pleasure of the person who wants to share her gift.
Thus, if you lack self-love, you will think that you do not deserve to reach your goal. For example, you will think that you cannot earn more money. You will get at a certain limit, at a certain amount of money, and the minute you are going to exceed it, you will waste it deliberately or involuntarily. It is a deep and unconscious matter. Every person has a personal value assessment: how much they think they are worth in all the aspects of their lives: health, love or finances.
When you know what you are worth, you can change it. There are methods for you to increase your personal value. I often use one of these methods in my lectures about « attractitude », which is about the law of attraction. It is a method used to develop your self-esteem and your self-love, which is very powerful and mighty. Once you manage to increase your unconscious self-value and love yourself more, you will be able to think that you are worth a lot in every aspect of your life.
If someone mistreats you, be it your friend, your lover, or your boss, it is because you believe you deserve it.
It’s very important to know how you feel about yourself. People with low self-esteem can suffer from emotional pain, depression and anxiety. So develop positive sense. You should be fully aware of your strengths.
In conclusion it is essential for you to look at positive sides of yourself, love yourself and so develop self-esteem. Anything else would be an insult to the universe.